Wednesday, 23 October 2013

Bonding over TV ... Monday 21st Oct

This week is school half-term for both of the teenagers, and Mrs P is off work until Thursday, having taken some holidays. So it is that normal house-husband activities are slightly suspended.

Whilst Monday morning finds me giving some help to Mrs P with the housework, it finds me spending more time with the eldest watching TV. One of the nice things about everyone being off is having lunch together, and because we had people for dinner yesterday there are various leftovers from that meal. So for lunch today I can make a few sandwiches and fill the table with lots of bits and pieces we can all tuck into, whilst we chat.

After lunch Mrs P and the eldest go off to town together and the youngest and I sit down to watch a documentary film called Undefeated. It follows an American Football season at a high school in North Memphis, Tennessee. It was a salutary lesson watching these kids (all coloured) from deprived backgrounds and broken homes trying to do the best they could – sometimes succeeding, but frequently failing – and their coaches (nearly all white) giving so much of their time to help these kids, who no one else would have bothered with. It made me even more grateful for what I have in my life, and hopefully it struck a chord with the youngest. At least it was good to sit through it with him.

In the evening I go out to play football, which I enjoy. Though I come home wondering if I overstretched, at one point. Or maybe it’s just old age, catching up with me.

Yours counting my blessings.

Jay

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